So I came across a friend, I used to talk to him for sometime now and I got to know many things later. It's weird how the person changes throughout the journey of life, how the reaction changes down along the green line, how the complementary behavior evolves around the tits-n-bits of life.
Today I just wanted to share my story. My so-called friend manipulated me into a friendship. It's very tough to understand when you're manipulated into something or whether you're involved in something because you wanted it. People preach for a good mask, I mean so-called book defined, finely orchestrated mask with a hidden faces and the mask varies with time, situation and communication. Unless you've been through hard treatment, you'll barely have the idea about the depth of mask you're penetrating into. The more you'll look hiding inside the mask, the more you'll be adoring it. But when you'll think outside the mask, may be like an outsider, you'll think differently. I was in a situation where two of my conscious minds used to fight each other to come up to a conclusion.
I always observed one thing, any relationship starts with a necessity and then it changes its direction. An intimate one, a close one, a good one, or just an acquaintance. Necessity brings two persons closer and may be it just initiates a closer communication. The slowly exposing nature of human mind and dominating soul of quick release, can trigger it at more than a regular pace. The string continues only when these two find each others helping each other or their natural elements completing each other. These factors drive for a intimate or close one which is long term. But there is an exception.
There are some people who come with a interest in their mind. They behave like slow-poisoning king. When you're taking a lot of opium, you may die, but if somebody is slowly injecting opium into your blood, you'll become addicted to it and after sometime, you'll ready to exchange everything for a single ounce of it. This is how people put you into a hole and trade for something they need.
I woke up from this "opium friendship", when I got to know that he is putting when clause for everything, he changes priority according to him needs, and how he valued according to time and situation. Also, I got to know some track records of him from some of him closer people.
It pains me a lot when a friend changes his behavior according time, situation and communication and values everything based on the output he's getting from the string. I have seen far lowest points when my best bud left me because of a girl I was dating. But this is the first time I felt the venom from my corporate life. Hope I can keep myself out of this type of situations later.
If he reads this, will feel that oh snap!! I must have brainstormed him (me, of course) in a better way.
Peace!! Happy Sunday blogs!!
You may follow me on twitter to get more updates: @pickkideb
Today I just wanted to share my story. My so-called friend manipulated me into a friendship. It's very tough to understand when you're manipulated into something or whether you're involved in something because you wanted it. People preach for a good mask, I mean so-called book defined, finely orchestrated mask with a hidden faces and the mask varies with time, situation and communication. Unless you've been through hard treatment, you'll barely have the idea about the depth of mask you're penetrating into. The more you'll look hiding inside the mask, the more you'll be adoring it. But when you'll think outside the mask, may be like an outsider, you'll think differently. I was in a situation where two of my conscious minds used to fight each other to come up to a conclusion.
I always observed one thing, any relationship starts with a necessity and then it changes its direction. An intimate one, a close one, a good one, or just an acquaintance. Necessity brings two persons closer and may be it just initiates a closer communication. The slowly exposing nature of human mind and dominating soul of quick release, can trigger it at more than a regular pace. The string continues only when these two find each others helping each other or their natural elements completing each other. These factors drive for a intimate or close one which is long term. But there is an exception.
There are some people who come with a interest in their mind. They behave like slow-poisoning king. When you're taking a lot of opium, you may die, but if somebody is slowly injecting opium into your blood, you'll become addicted to it and after sometime, you'll ready to exchange everything for a single ounce of it. This is how people put you into a hole and trade for something they need.
I woke up from this "opium friendship", when I got to know that he is putting when clause for everything, he changes priority according to him needs, and how he valued according to time and situation. Also, I got to know some track records of him from some of him closer people.
It pains me a lot when a friend changes his behavior according time, situation and communication and values everything based on the output he's getting from the string. I have seen far lowest points when my best bud left me because of a girl I was dating. But this is the first time I felt the venom from my corporate life. Hope I can keep myself out of this type of situations later.
If he reads this, will feel that oh snap!! I must have brainstormed him (me, of course) in a better way.
Peace!! Happy Sunday blogs!!
You may follow me on twitter to get more updates: @pickkideb
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